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Lesbian shares custody in landmark Italian case

An Italian woman has been given the right to shared custody of her children after splitting up from their biological mother in a case that has set a precedent for gay couples in Italy.

Lesbian shares custody in landmark Italian case
The Palermo ruling has set a precedent in Italy. Photo: JK Beitz

In its ruling, the Palermo court recognized the right for the children to “maintain a stable and significant relationship” with the woman, and said she would be allowed to see the children and look after them on fixed days, TGCom24 reported.

The news was welcomed by LGBT-rights organizations.

“This is an important decision for all 'rainbow' families,” Giuseppina La Delfa, president of Famiglie Arcobaleno, the national association of homosexual and transsexual parents, told Corriere Del Mezzogiorno.

“It clearly states that the separation of a homosexual couple, who together decided to have children and raise them, cannot mean the end of the relationship between the non-biological parent and children."

La Delfa added that the current lack of legal protection for gay couples who decide to have children together means that the biological parent can exclude the other from the children’s lives after a separation.

The Palermo judges took into account psychological expertise acknowledging a family link between the children and the woman who isn’t their biological mother. 

By Anna Pujol Mazzini

CHRISTMAS

Rome’s ‘Geppetto’ on fixing broken toys for underprivileged children

Frayed teddy bears and broken toy cars resurrect under the magic touch of Guido Pacelli, a modern-day Geppetto who works overtime so that Rome's poor and sick children wake up to a gift on Christmas morning.

Rome's 'Geppetto' on fixing broken toys for underprivileged children
Photo: FILIPPO MONTEFORTE / AFP

Armed with a screwdriver, a microscope and a small welder, “Guido Aggiustagiocattoli”, a.k.a Guido the Toy Fixer, has mended between 50 and 70 toys a day these past two months, in preparation for the festive season.

“The best present for me is when these children who have been through so much smile at me,” said Pacelli, a 68-year-old retired aviation technician from Italy's flagship airline Alitalia.

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Once up and running, the repaired toys are meticulously disinfected, carefully wrapped and labelled for the families. Salvamamme (Save Mothers), which hosts Pacelli's workshop in premises lent by the Italian Red Cross, then distribute the gifts to poor, migrant or sick children.

Pacelli remembers a Caterpillar tractor he repaired for a little boy. “He called me every day until I managed to repair it,” said Pacelli, a volunteer for the charity since an early retirement in 2011.

Photo: FILIPPO MONTEFORTE / AFP

“People leave batteries in and they oxidate,” he said, as he changes those of a green plastic electric guitar, extracted from a pile of soft toys, mini computers and wind-chimes for children.

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Nicknamed Geppetto — the creator of Pinocchio in Carlo Collodi's novel — because of his blue overalls and glasses, Pacelli plays an essential role in the charity.

“This toy was even sent by the manufacturer because it was faulty. I've mended it and now it will go to a child in a hospital,” said Pacelli.

20,000 toys a year 

“We distribute more than 20,000 toys a year,” said Maria Grazia Passeri, head of Salvamamme which also hands out food, nappies and clothes to families with very little means.

The products come from official organisations, hospitals or local parishes. Passeri, wrapped in a red shawl, said that she founded the charity 20 years ago to help “all these women who give birth in secret or go through horrible experiences”.

On distribution day at Salvamamme, mothers fill out forms and children amuse themselves amongst the piles of parcels ready to be sent and play with toys awaiting Pacelli's intervention, stacked in heaving piles.

Many former beneficiaries who manage to lift themselves out of poverty become volunteers at Salvamamme. Jonathan, a 29-year-old Argentinian, arrived in Italy 12 years ago without work or a family to start a new life. “I am very grateful, I will never forget the help I received.

All my free time I give it to the association,” he said. Anna Moticala has a family of five to feed, three of whom are children. She arrived from Moldova to Rome eight years ago and is unemployed. She is also grateful for the charity.

“I asked for a little help and they helped me enormously,” she said, above the sound of children's laughter as they play and gobble down a slice of Pandoro, a typical Italian Christmas dessert.

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