Italian expression of the day: ‘Il pacco da giù’

Here's why Italian care packages are in a league of their own.

Italian expression of the day: 'Il pacco da giù'
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Care packages are universal, but in Italy they tend to be sent in one direction only.

With so many Italians moving from their southern hometowns to the north of Italy to work or study, it's far from unusual for them to shuttle back and forth by car, train, plane or bus on every holiday. And in some cases, even most weekends.

But what happens when you can't make a trip home to see your family – and to stock up on much-needed supplies?

If you can't get to southern Italy, southern Italy comes to you in the form of il pacco da giù.

Giù, a versatile word which can mean “down”, “downstairs”, “under” or “below”, in this case means “down south”.

Sù means the opposite: up, above, over, upstairs.

So many Italians regularly send or receive a “parcel from down south” that the concept is well known throughout the country, and couriers are well-practiced in delivering perishable goods from door to door in record time.

While such parcels in many countries would contain comfort foods and sugary treats, in Italy you can expect things to be markedly healthier.

The contents of one pacco da giù from my in-laws n November 2018 included porcini mushrooms, pomegrates, fresh eggs, and a kilo of cheese. Photo: Clare Speak/The Local

As so many Italian families – particularly in the south – have at least a smallholding on which they grow their own vegetables, they'll be concerned about their grown-up children not getting enough fresh produce in their diets while living elsewhere.

When we lived in Tuscany, my husband's family in Puglia would regularly send large, insulated packages by overnight courier. They always weighed several kilos, and were filled with fresh fruit, vegetables and even eggs from their own chickens – which to my amazement usually arrived intact.

They'd even contain things liked pasta, cured meats and cheeses from their local shops.

And of course, they also contained a few bags of homemade biscotti.

– Quante confezioni di biscotti devo mettere nel pacco?

– How many packets of biscuits should I put in the parcel?

While I initally thought my in-laws were just especially kind and generous – and overly concerned about our diet – I soon found out that this is something many Italian families do.

Of course, Italians living elsewhere in Europe will find their pacco da giù delivery absolutely essential – though the contents may need to have a slightly longer shelf life.

No doubt these parcels will become even more important this year with many people separated from family and friends over Christmas by the coronavirus travel restrictions.

If you're spending Christmas in Italy this year, away from your family in northern Europe, you may also be lucky enough to receive something that's far less common in Italy: un 'pacco da sù' (a parcel from up north), though no doubt the contents will be quite different.

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Italian word of the day: ‘Delusione’

We hope this word doesn't disappoint.

Italian word of the day: 'Delusione'

Experiencing a delusione (deh-loo-zee-OH-neh) in Italian may not be pleasant, but it doesn’t mean you need escorting to the psychiatrist’s chair.

That’s because while delusione may look and sound like its English cousin ‘delusion’, the word actually means something quite different: disappointment.

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The two nouns actually have the same root in the Latin dēlūsiō, meaning a deceiving or deluding, and delūdō, meaning to deceive, dupe, or mock.

But while the English ‘delusion’ has hewn close to the original Latin meaning over the centuries, delusione at some point branched off to its current, quite different, definition.

There’s not much in the way of information about exactly when and how that happened, but it’s clearly a short associative hop from feeling ‘deceived’ or ‘duped’ by things turning out differently to what you’d expected to feeling ‘disappointed’.

Che delusione.
How disappointing.

La festa era, purtroppo, una grande delusione.
The party unfortunately was a big disappointment.

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The adjective for ‘disappointed’ is deluso for a single masculine subject, changing to delusa/delusi/deluse if the subject being described is feminine singular/masculine plural/feminine plural.

Era delusa da come era venuta la torta.
She was disappointed with how the cake turned out.

Devo dire che siamo davvero delusi dal fatto che siamo stati trattati in questo modo.
I have to say that we’re very disappointed to have been treated this way.

A word you’ll often see used in combination with deluso/a/i/e is rimanere (ree-man-EH-reh): rimanere deluso.

You might correctly recognise rimanere as meaning ‘to remain’, and wonder why we’d use that word here – but rimanere also has an alternative meaning along the lines of ‘to become’, ‘to get’, or simply ‘to be’.

For example, you can rimanere incinta (get pregnant), or rimanere ferito (get hurt or wounded, for example in a car accident).

It’s also very often used with emotions, usually those experienced in the moment rather than long-term ones: you can rimanere sorpreso (be surprised), rimanere triste (be sad), rimanere scioccato (be shocked)… and rimanere deluso (be disappointed).

Sono rimasto molto deluso quando mi ha detto di aver abbandonato la scuola.
I was very disappointed when she told me she had dropped out of school.

Siamo rimasti delusi dalle condizioni della stanza d’albergo al nostro arrivo.
We were disappointed by the condition of the hotel room when we arrived.

With that, we wish you a weekend free of delusioni (disappointments)!

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